“How can you not have insurance?”
“Because I spent my money on the Clapco D29, the most impenetrable lock on the market today. It has only one design flaw, the door must be closed!”
Can I Control The Way I Feel?
If you asked most people the above question, they would probably say no. The majority of people, it’s fair to say, look at the world around them and feel good or bad depending on what they see. If they see things they like they feel good. If they see things they don’t like, they feel bad. This is unfortunate for the following reasons:
1. The world responds to how you feel, so if you feel bad, then the world will match you up with more things that match the way you feel i.e. things which will make you feel bad.
2. The conditions are not controllable
Now, if you only had the ability to observe, this would be a bit of a problem; If you could only affect how you feel by observing things which make you feel good, then you would need to control the conditions around you to control the way you feel, and as we’ve already seen these conditions are not controllable. Fortunately, as a human being you have the ability to imagine things different than they are. And that little difference means you have the ability to create situations however you want them to be.
The main source of trouble in our world is people who believe that they need to control the conditions that they are observing in order to feel good. They see the world and they don’t like what they see, so they drop bombs on people they fear might assert themselves into their experience. They want to see things which make them feel good when they see them, so they try to effect control on the conditions, but this never works because the conditions are uncontrollable. Also, by giving their attention to something, they are actually asking for more of the same, they are drawing the thing they don’t want even closer. Law of attraction matches up like with like; as you tune into a subject, whatever it may be, you are inviting that subject into your life. If you feel predominantly good, then bad feeling things cannot happen to you, because you are not a match to bad feeling things.
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What most people do not understand or perhaps haven’t yet realised is that they can feel good regardless of the conditions. This is called unconditional love (feeling love or good regardless of the conditions) and is the message that lies at the basis of all religions. If life responds to how you feel, then there really is nothing more important than feeling good, regardless of what is happening around you. It doesn’t matter what the situation is, you can work it around in your mind to a place where you feel better about it, and see the positive side of the equation. So you got a parking ticket? No big deal. Make light of it. Feel good now. Is it really worth all that angst? Hardly. Those people you work with are nasty and bullying you? Well, you’ve got some work to do haven’t you? You have attracted these ‘bullies’ into your life. You need to see them as something different and feel better about the situation or nothing will change. If you didn’t feel victimised in the first place, they wouldn’t behave the way they do. If you try to take action to change the way you feel (by changing the conditions) without changing your underlying feeling of being a victim, then another bully will spring up in the next place you go. Nothing will change until you change the way you feel by focussing in a different way.
So governments make laws to try and control conditions, and fail miserably. People argue about what is the right or wrong way of living life, and come to no firm conclusions, because there is no right or wrong way, just the natural variety and contrast inherent in an expanding universe. People will at some point come to the conclusion that you cannot control anything in the world, nor need you control anything other than the way that you feel. Because the way you feel determines everything that comes to you in life. If you don’t give your attention to the things that you don’t want, you won’t experience them in your life. Your perspective of the world is the only important thing. Set your radio tuner to the parts of the world that you want to see, and then let those aspects of the world come to you. If you give your attention to it, you’re asking for it. There is not assertion of anything unwanted into your life by anybody or anything outside of you. You ask for all of it with your thoughts and your attention to the subject.
Now, here’s the bit that makes it all fit together nicely, and I’m not going to dress this up at all, so here goes. The physical human being that you know as “you” is actually consciousness focussed into a physical human body. Your “source energy you” which some might call God or Soul or Source Energy or Inner Being, that part of you projected the physical you into existence by focussed thought. That source part of you exists safe and warm in the non-physical realm of pure positive energy (call it heaven if you will). Physical "you” is an explorer, a trailblazer, the man on the moon, here to live a life of contrast and to ask for things to be different. When you ask, source answers your requests and the universe expands into a newer better place (yes you are responsible for the expansion of the universe!). Source energy now focuses its attention purely on that vision (because source energy, infinite intelligence, understands the power of law of attraction). Now, when you focus in a way other than your source energy does, you feel a separation of the two parts of you. What this means is that if you constantly feel good, then you know that you are keeping up with the things that you’ve asked for which source is focussing upon, upon the expansion that life has caused you to ask for. If you feel worthy, if you feel proud of yourself, If you feel rich, beautiful, appreciated, if you feel that those around you are wonderful good people, you can be sure that your source energy agrees with you because those thoughts feel good, and you can feel the agreement by the resonance inside you.
Now, if you choose to see things other than the source within you sees them, then you will feel the separation of the two parts of you as your vibration dips from the fast pure positive energy of your source, and this feels bad to you. If you feel like you’ve done something wrong and you feel bad, if you judge yourself harshly, the reason you feel bad if not because you are bad, but because your inner being loves you unconditionally, and at that moment you are not loving yourself. As your negative thoughts cause your vibration to take a dip into lower slower thoughts, you feel the dissonance between you and the source part of you. There is nothing that you could do which would cause your source energy to withdraw its love for you, but you must also love yourself unconditionally or you will feel negative emotion as you are separated from the vibration of your source energy. As law of attraction responds to your vibration, it is prudent to have a guidance system to keep you on track in life, and therefore moving towards what you have asked for, and what your source is focussing upon on your behalf – and this is what your emotions are for. Your emotions are a feedback mechanism, using your inner being as the benchmark (which holds the vision of the culmination of all of the best bits of life that you have asked for). Feel good, attract good things to you. Feel bad? Work it around into a way that you feel good and get back on track. It is worth pointing out here that the source part of you is the far greater part of the total you, has lived many thousands of life experiences and holds the culmination of all of those experiences and focusses upon them. So a few negative thoughts is not going to get you struck down, as the well being that flows to you by your source is huge. If you feel bad just relax and let go of whatever is bothering you.
Stop trying to change conditions which are unchangeable, and stop explaining or justifying where you are. Make a decision to feel good, make a decision to give your attention to things which feel good, and disregard things which don’t feel good to you. Most of all, resonate in harmony with your true friend and companion in this life, your inner source energy or soul, who adores you no matter what, and who is always there to offer you unconditional love. Love yourself as much as your source loves you, and watch yourself shine. Get in tune with that feeling, and move forward joyously into your future expansion.
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